The holiday season is upon us, and it’s the perfect time to spread joy and cheer by being the perfect guest at your Christmas gatherings. With a little effort and a touch of charm, you can ensure that you leave a lasting impression on your hosts and fellow partygoers. Editor Kai Lutterodt shares some tips to help you navigate this festive season with finesse.
Ah the festive season. The most wonderful time of the year they say. And whilst it’s a time for gathering with family and friends, not everyone is looking forward to Christmas, especially not the 39% of Brits who say there are too many expectations linked to Christmas. Here are my tips, as well as suggestions from Katy Baxter, Corporate Affairs Director at Baxters of Scotland, and Lucy Ward, Marketing Executive at Beanies Flavour Co.
1. RSVP promptly: Respond to invitations in a timely manner, indicating whether you’ll be attending or not. This will give your hosts enough time to plan and make necessary arrangements.
2. Arrive on time: Punctuality reflects respect and consideration for your hosts and fellow guests. Plan your journey in advance, allowing for any potential traffic or delays, so you can arrive promptly.
3. Dress for the occasion: Make an effort to dress appropriately for the event. If the invitation specifies a dress code, be sure to adhere to it. If not, opt for festive attire that shows your holiday spirit.
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4. Bring a thoughtful gift: Show gratitude to your hosts by bringing a small gift as a token of appreciation. Consider their preferences and interests when choosing the gift, such as a bottle of wine, a gourmet treat, or something sentimental. “The perfect gift doesn’t have to be something big at all. In fact, your hosts will probably appreciate anything you bring as a little “thank you”. But one big ‘no’ for gift-giving etiquette is re-gifting. Not only does it mean you’ve put no thought into what your host might want, but it might land you in a tricky situation if you accidentally re-gift to the original gifter!” Katy Baxter shared.
“Presentation is everything at Christmas, so don’t forget to wrap your gift. Even if it is simply a bottle of their favourite drink, putting the extra effort into wrapping it nicely can make your host feel that extra bit special.” Baxter continued.
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5. Engage in the festivities: Be an active participant in conversations, showing genuine interest in others. Ask open-ended questions and listen attentively to create meaningful connections with your hosts and fellow guests. “Part of being a good guest is making sure you’re sharing the Christmas spirit, so why not try your hand at making festive cocktails (and mocktails) for the party by giving your host a helping hand in the kitchen. This way you can keep the party entertained, and hydrated, while giving your host some time to themselves.” Baxter shared.
6. Offer to help: Extend your assistance to your hosts. Offer to help with setting the table, clearing dishes, or anything else that may alleviate their workload. Your willingness to lend a hand will be greatly appreciated. Treat your host’s home with care and respect. Keep your belongings organised, avoid leaving a mess, and follow any guidelines provided by your hosts regarding the use of their space.
7. Be mindful of dietary restrictions: If you have any dietary restrictions or allergies, inform your hosts in advance. They will appreciate the consideration and can plan their menu accordingly. Additionally, be gracious and try to find something to enjoy even if the options are limited. “If you’re a fussy eater, let your host know beforehand so that they can avoid putting something you don’t like on your plate. Most hosts will be willing to adjust your portions and plating to make sure you’re enjoying your meal as much as possible.” Baxton shared.
8. Know when you leave a dinner party, and don’t forget to say “Thank You”: Leaving a dinner party is often a bittersweet moment. While you may be in the festive spirit, it’s important not to over stay your welcome. Spot the signs for when it’s time to leave. “Guests can often outstay their welcome without meaning to, especially when it comes to a good party. And sometimes pulling out the after-party coffee is the only way you can think to get your guests to start grabbing their coats.” Lucy Ward shared.
Don’t forget to take a moment to personally thank the host or hostess before you leave. Want to earn extra brownie points? Send a thank-you note or follow-up message after the event to show your appreciation for their efforts in hosting a wonderful Christmas gathering.
Remember, being the perfect guest is not about perfection itself, but rather about kindness, respect, and consideration for others. Charm your way into the hearts of your hosts and fellow guests this Christmas season. Enjoy the festivities!
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Written by Kai Lutterodt @the.soho.girl
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